Find Your Relationship Pattern and Grow From Here
Take the free Relationship Patterns Assessment to learn what strengths you bring to the people you love, and what to strengthen next so your relationships stay healthy.
Click Discover My Pattern, enter your name & email, then answer a few questions. We’ll score it and email your personalized results.
The Law of Destination Starts With Location
If you want to grow, you have to get honest about where you are. All of us have relationship defaults, how we respond under stress, how we handle conflict, and what we do when we feel hurt, pressured, or misunderstood. This assessment helps you name those patterns so you can mature with clarity and grow on purpose in the relationships that matter most.
Identify your primary relationship pattern and how it shows up in real life
Understand what your pattern protects and what it can cost when it goes unchecked
Recognize your strengths so you can grow in your giftings
Get one clear focus for maturity in this season
In About 5 Minutes, You’ll Learn Your Primary Relationship Pattern
This is not a generic personality quiz. It’s a practical, faith-centered assessment designed to help you grow with clarity.
You’ll discover
Your primary pattern: The Anchor, The Peacekeeper, The Refiner, The Controller, The Reactor, or The Guarded Heart.
What your pattern looks like in real life.
The strengths you bring to relationships.
The areas to strengthen so you can respond with more wisdom and stability.
This Is for You If…
You want to grow in emotional maturity and spiritual maturity.
You keep seeing the same reactions show up under stress and you want to understand why.
You want healthier communication and stronger connection in marriage, friendships, or family.
You’re willing to take ownership of your part and grow from there.
You want faith and practical tools working together.
This Is for You If…
You want to grow in emotional maturity and spiritual maturity.
You keep seeing the same reactions show up under stress and you want to understand why.
You want healthier communication and stronger connection in marriage, friendships, or family.
You’re willing to take ownership of your part and grow from there.
You want faith and practical tools working together.
Meet Your Guides Pastors Ken & Tabatha Claytor
For over two decades, Pastors Ken and Tabatha Claytor have helped individuals and couples build healthier, faith-centered relationships. As pastoral leaders, Bible teachers, and marriage coaches, they teach practical tools that help people grow personally and love better relationally.
Their approach is simple: when you get better, your relationships get better.
